6 Slay Queen Tips for Aspiring Slay Queens
6 Slay Queen Tips for Aspiring Slay Queens
All aspiring Slay Queens could do with some honest, helpful Slay Queen tips. Unfortunately, many start on the wrong foot and ruin their Slay Queen Life before it can even begin. I hope I can share some juicy Slay Queen tips with you today, and help you avoid some very common mistakes.
Scrolling through your Instagram feed, you’ll always (intentionally) come across that girl you secretly hate who seems to have it all. She’s the girl who travels around the world in first-class, always keeping up with the latest trends and owning every designer bag you can think of.
All you can do is look at your long wishlist of things and places you can’t afford and think to yourself, “How the hell can she do it?”
When you have a taste for the more expensive things in life but your credit cards are maxed out, you can find a 9-to-5 office job or be a Slay Queen.
The second option requires no commitment or broken hearts; all you need to do is prepare for all the fun and exciting experiences ahead of you!
Here are 6 Slay Queen tips for you to kickstart your sugary lifestyle that will help leave a memorable impression for your Blessers or Blesser Queens:
Slay Queen tips – Know what you’re getting into.
In case you’re new to the sweet life, your role as a Slay Queen is to provide companionship in exchange for being pampered.
Before you start soul searching, know this, being a Slay Queen is not a job. It is a choice and a lifestyle where people with power, ambitions, and desires meet each other to establish Relationships with Benefits.
There is nothing wrong with a charming and intelligent woman wanting to date a mature and financially secure man who can provide her the sweet life she desires.
Remember: You are not obligated to have sex with your Blesser, and it is perfectly fine if you don’t want to. Sex is never a requirement, just an aspiration.
Be transparent and specific with your terms.
Time is money for the wealthy Blessers, and there’s nothing to gain if you beat around the bush.
Be direct and honest about what you expect – receiving an allowance, paying for your college tuition, getting you a new bag or a new car, and paying your bills for example.
As a Slay Queen, it is crucial to communicate with your Blesser regarding your availability and don’t be afraid to address your limits and discuss your dealbreakers.
When coming to an agreement with your Blesser, be sure that both parties can meet the requirements specified and both parties are willing to stick to the terms at all times.
Your appearance is your greatest asset.
Forget about what your mom told you when you were young; looks matter A LOT. Let’s face it, the hotter you are, the more sugar you attract.
Blessers love to show off their young and attractive Slay Queen to their friends and business partners in parties and social events.
Get out the armory of sunscreen and Botox; invest everything you have in your appearance. Go to the gym like it’s your job – because looking good IS your job. It is your responsibility as a Slay Queen to boost your Blessers’ ego and self-esteem by looking presentable at all times.
Need I say more?
Respect your Blessers’ privacy.
Discretion is the number one key to a drama-free sugar relationship. Blessers are wealthy, powerful men and well-respected public figures who usually prefer keeping a low profile regarding their sugar lifestyle.
To avoid unnecessary drama (like losing your Blessers), never post photos of them on your social media or discuss the details of your sugar relationship with anyone else. Just like a healthy relationship, it is always best to respect your partner and keep things private between the both of you.
Always remember, a little mystery goes a long way!
Stay away from Non-Blessers.
A Non-Blessers is a man who’s unwilling to spoil and pamper his Slay Queen but pretends to be a generous Blesser. He has convinced himself that he’s somehow worthy of the Slay Queens’ attention.
Often preying on inexperienced and naive Slay Queens, their words are but lies and empty promises. Remember, you’re a Slay Queen, not a girlfriend, not a hookup, not a booty call.
There is NO intimacy without the allowance first. NO promises, NO “trust me”s. NO excuses. Never allow a Non-Blesser to have the chance to get a test drive, a free ride, or a sexual “chemistry check” before you talk terms.
I cannot stress this enough, never ever waste your time to entertain Non-Blessers who will only take advantage of you. These Non-Blessers men wants to get sugar without giving any in return and that’s not what we do here, honey.
An excellent way to find out if you could potentially be dealing with a salt daddy is to gauge his reactions or responses to your requests. If he won’t even talk about what you need until he gets what he wants, blacklist him and move on.
Always have a backup plan.
Always keep in mind that your sugar relationship can end anytime and the allowance you’re getting is never permanent. Avoid overspending the money your Blessers gave you and keep some for the bank. It is also never wise to solely rely on one Blesser as your primary source of income.
Be the strong, smart, independent woman that you are and always have a backup plan.
You can tap into the connections you’ve built to start a small business or find another Blesser with your charm and guile.
Either way, you’ll never be afraid of being ugly and broke again. Have fun Slay Queen, ladies!
