Blesser Arrangement – Negotiate Your Terms of Relationship update
Blesser Arrangement – Negotiate Your Terms of Relationship
At Blesser’s Love, we believe in the power of negotiating your Blesser arrangement honestly and openly. You’re probably here to seek company, intimacy, financial support, or a mix of everything. However, not everyone knows how to get what they want in a Mutually Beneficial Relationship.
Whether you’re a Blesser, Slay Queen, or Ben 10, you only need to follow these simple steps to get started. Stop thinking within the confines of traditional dating, and read this with an open mind.
#1 – Honest, Transparent Relationships
The first thing to do is to stop faking it.
People signup at Blesser.Love because they are tired of the endless swiping. They are tired of playing games. If you think Blessers.Love is about cheesy pickup lines, misleading others, or being someone you’re not in order to impress, stop now.
We believe in honest & transparent relationships, where both parties state what they want. What do you want?
Chances are, you’ve never really put it into words. Here are a few ideas based on research we have done:
• What do Blessers want?
• What do a Slay Queens looking for?
On a piece of paper, write, “Here’s what I want” and list down everything you can think of. You can also state what d=you do not want if you feel strongly about it. Examples:
• I want a partner to hang out with on weekends and watch Netflix
• I want a young African-American woman who can spice up my life
• I want successful businessmen who are not too demanding on my time
• I want a partner that is good in bed, or willing to explore their sexuality
• I do not want people who smoke or are doing drugs
• I do not want men who are married or with kids
There’s no right or wrong. These are just the things YOU want and will be the basis of your arrangement going forward.
#2 – State Your Ideal Blesser Arrangement
We have provided sections in the profile page where you can clearly state who you are (in About Me) and what exactly are you seeking (in What I’m Looking For). Most people will read these two sections, and decide if they should start a chat with you.
Remember, you don’t need to pretend to be someone you are not. Are you overweight, transgender, gay, married, divorced, with kids, OCD, or bad at small talk?
Just say it. People either want you for who you are, or they don’t. We have over 300,000 members from all over the world. It’s better to seek the ones who want you for what you are then to mislead them.
#3 – Be Direct But Respectful in Your Chats
Firstly, you need to be very comfortable with yourself. Be clear and direct. If you are after sex, then inform your chat partner. If you are not keen on sex right off the bat but could consider the notion, maybe after meeting to see whether there’s any chemistry, then say so.
Tuck the ego away, and keep the discussion results-oriented. Be considerate and flexible. Here’s a guide on how to approach your potential Blesser or Slay Queen, and seal the deal quickly.
Always show respect and understanding of the other party. We are in no rush here. It is better to find a Slay Queen or Blesser who can agree to the terms you provided rather than get into any heated arguments later.
Most importantly, keep the conversation going online before providing private contact information. Until you reach an agreement about your Blesser arrangement, maintain contact through the messaging system. That keeps you a safe distance until you both get to know each other better.
Of course, you may want to meet the person before you start talking terms to check for chemistry. You can make this choice based on your own judgment.
